Are you ready to become the woman you've always wanted to be?
Think back to when you were young…

Remember when all things seemed possible, when your future stretched before you like an endless road? You had hopes, dreams, and plans, and you were certain that nothing would stand in your way. But then life happened, with its unexpected detours. Some were good, some not so good. Failed relationships, demoralizing jobs, and mounting responsibilities took their toll. People told you that the dreams of your youth were foolish and naive, and you just needed to let them go.

At some point, you made an agreement with yourself that those people must be right. What made you think that you were special? Why couldn’t you just accept that who you are and what you have are all that will ever be? Still, deep down, you wonder, “What if?” What if those people were wrong, and you somehow could get back on that road you once envisioned and realize some of your long-ago dreams? Well, I’m here to tell you that you can! How do I know? Because I’ve been there, and I’ve experienced it myself.

I’m Pam, and I’m here for you!

My name is Pam Mattys, and I specialize in life transformation for women. I live in Oregon, but I’m originally from Hawaii — two of the most beautiful places in the world. I’m happily married, and I have two grown sons. I’ve always been a deeply spiritual person. I’m a Christian, but I respect all faiths and philosophies that are based on love and respect. I enjoy cooking, travel, crafts, reading, music, nature, and spending time with my husband and our pets.

For most of my career, I was an executive administrative assistant, supporting senior leaders at such organizations as the Federal Reserve Bank of San Francisco, Intel, and the Chief’s Office of the Portland Police Bureau. I retired in 2018 to pursue what I’d long known is my true calling: helping women work through their life challenges and reach their highest potential.

Like you, I have many facets. I can be strong, bold, and confident — but I also can be frightened and insecure. We’re all complex, flawed, amazing human beings — and, at different points in our lives, we each need help figuring out who we are and where we want to go. If you’re at one of those points, I can help!

How I can help


Learn how my life coaching programs can help you reach your highest potential.


I offer an online women’s empowerment workshop called Warrior Goddess Training.


Check out essential oils and other items that I use and have found to be beneficial.

My training and background
  • Certified Life, Spiritual, and Energetic Coach, having completed the Artist of the Spirit coaching program taught by Diana Adkins.
  • Certified Facilitator for HeatherAsh Amara’s Warrior Goddess Training workshop. HeatherAsh developed the Warrior Goddess Way to empower women. She apprenticed for several years under Don Miguel Ruiz, author of the best-selling book The Four Agreements.
  • Wellness Advocate for doTERRA essential oils and other products.

Aside from my formal training, I have considerable experience in the school of life. It includes divorce, single motherhood, financial difficulties, hostile work environments, self-doubt, and being the proverbial “fish out of water,” trying to remain true to my Hawaiian values in the tougher Mainland culture. I’ve also been blessed. Many people — sometimes complete strangers — have helped me and shown me kindness. I have a wonderful husband and two fine sons. I reached a level in my previous career that I never would have dreamed possible. Whatever you’re going through, I can empathize!


Pam has great energy. She is warm-hearted, caring, and supportive. She is such a great listener. Her advice and wisdom have helped me navigate the challenges in life.

Monica S-C. • San Jose, CA

With abundant wisdom, fierce strength, and great compassion, Pam speaks to my heart to work through challenging situations by empowering me to unveil my inner strength.

Cindy A. • Portland, OR

Pam encourages me to step out of my comfort zone and gives me tools to boost my self-confidence. She’s a very spiritual person and always finds the right words to help me!

Alyce L. • Honolulu, HI
In summary…

If you’re a woman who needs a helping hand and a kind heart to guide you toward becoming the best version of yourself that you can be, then contact me to schedule a complimentary 30-minute conversation in which I can learn about what you want to achieve from coaching and you can get a feeling for my style and personality. If we agree that we’re a good fit for each other, then we’ll take it from there and design a coaching program that will enable you to achieve your goals.

You, my sister, are stronger than you know!

Love and aloha,

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